HAYDEN Robert

HAYDEN (Robert):

Today is three years from when born Robert Charles Hayden left this world to start a new chapter, with his elder mum and dad and older than him brothers and sisters.

Us siblings alive now but growing older, each and all of us will always remember the date he died.

Cause of whatever reasons we individually do we all have our own minds and remember different childhood episodes of family or individual living in the 8 peopled original family members.

The number 19 was a special number in my life, my son, my father's working grandson as is now and has been for going on 29 years was born on that number day, but not the month.

I think my son, Craig will always remember that number also, as he was close to my father as a toddler and growing into a working class independent, dependent working class independent individual with his own ways in life making new aquaintenances now and then and in the future.

Mum is still alive and manages her life Independently and dependently now and in the near future.

She talks of the close family dead sometimes and old friends that have passed on like you father.

No man can ever replace the real father how he sacrificed his life keeping a one income family together in his twilight years.

Both Mum and Dad did together from the different family transferred homes for years on end through family changes and there was many a many over the unforseen daily years.

HAYDEN (Robert):

Hello, hello, hello, haven't written for a while now old live in the memory lane of the growing Hayden and other surnamed new married families and extended families overseas, welcome, as you and mum would let any old member in their home together, without Malice but a lot of life changes and new or old habits over the lasting long yearly years.

They always cherished together the New and Old photos of new born grandchildren into the Hayden and Healy families combined.

They loved the 1st wedding of the grandchildren for everyone to look at the photos on shelves given to by all of us individual family members over the years, on and off, off and on over the years.

Your biological born 1st grandson, of June and the late Jim Bache is getting married to a Vietnamese girl around the same age as him on the 25.3.2023 at Mitchell Park in South Perth at 4.30pm on the foreshore of the banks of the Swan River by a celebrant.

The vowels will be said 1st, followed by a closed invitation only reception for close relatives, friends and family of the groom and bride, others not invited could come along and watch if they want to watch him and his bride be married by a celebrant.

A lot of precious time and organisation has gone into Lance's occasion while he has been a busy boy keeping up his earning a weekly job living to pay the bills together.

My son Craig, your second born grandson, his cousin, a year younger than him, unfortunately won't be able to make it, probably like some others because of work commitments far away and away but I will relay the wedding to him and his girlfriend.

Should be good and something different to watch and take part of the extended families gatherings for the evening.

Should be an outing of very interesting pleasantry and beauty,

Mum, Dot Hayden, is looking forward to the gathering and the outdoor wedding of her 1st grandson, Lance Bache 44 years of age

Until next time, some good news for a change in the growing extended families,

ah, Daddy, Daddy,

91, nearly 92 Mum Dot still remembers and thinks about you at times Dad, who was your long term faithful partner through awkward times and good healthy times and father of 6, and grandfather and great grandfather to many scattered and living in places of works and homes daily and nightly, nightly.

Au revoir to another living, writing peaceful time, family member, you know who I am still

Although Lance has already trotted off to Vietnam in February to his Vietnam girlfriend to already have had a wedding at her parents big farm property, taking and came back with his Best man and bridesmaid, long term friends of Lance, ready for another wedding for the invited families who couldn't make it to Vietnam for their 2nd wedding on the banks of the Swan River, Mitchell Park.

HAYDEN (Robert)

Hello dad, think other members of the family could be visiting your grave site up Guildford cemetery today.

I will go later when I'm not so tired at the moment with alot of other sites pressing issues all week, and beyond Xmas day.

Mum dot, sends her best wishes for the 4th of September, today, which is father's Day,

I remember just before I placed a belated paid for father's Day card from one of many shopping centres from part of the Australian world wide shopping centre precincts

With your card I gave you an air force adult reading war book plus a toiletry bag full of goody goodies.

I don't think you ever got the chance to use and cherish them.

When you use to ring mum up at the nursing home in her room at the nursing home, I was there visiting her.

I told mum I was giving you a card etc, and you told dad over the phone, while I was listening in to your conversations together, which were quite a few, over time,

He said it was the thought that counted, so he was appreciating them, I still will always remember to the day that one day, my turn will come like others before or after you in Hayden/Healy, clans of clans of clans before and after you, Robert Charles, Hayden, a man who should always be recognised for being the bread winner, sharing, his life raising six kids with for, always working to make ends meet to keep the was family clothed, independent of each other growing up.

All having our own safe personal space, and being educated through the different schools, of graded friendly peers of different personality calibras.

Then off to work to find our own way in life, all independent of each other, all setting our own well being living standards over the long yearly, yearly, years ahead of us all.

So. I will sign off now, and also wish you a belated 89th birthday for the 5th of July 2022.

Mum is 91, now, and still going ever so well and stronger.

Craig was your close grandson and his girlfriend that you befriended several times, when he came especially down to visit you, on his training work courses in Perth or on short visits with Simone always,

Send wishes of greatness for grandfather's like you had been to him all over the wide and wonderful travelling always world ahead of people known of or not known of.

Au revoir for now, write to you again with the year of 2022,

Craig will carry on my guest book on a permanent basis one day, when I leave it to him in my up and coming will one day.

It's also Gary's and Kevin's deceased father's Day also today,

Yours and mums 3rd and 5th adult familied families far and wide, that us sisters and brothers of Gary and kevin will always remember as people as part of our dynasty Hayden/Healy families, that cousins and aunties and uncles still talk about and remember, especially the mum of mums, Dorothy Hayden, your wife forever, your kids forever,

Amen, R.I.P, grandchildren and great grand children, no great great grandchildren as far as I know yet, could be.

Au revoir, until next special yearly on or off occasion

Everyone everywhere else today doing their working own thing

Goodbye for now,

Colleen still kicking and the rest, and mum

HAYDEN (Robert):

Hi, Dad,

Just letting you know your Ist son Gary Robert Charles Peter Hayden, died of Cancer,

Your living Wife, Dorothy said that Peter was his confirmation name he obtained when he attended CBC Leederville.(Christian Brothers College) when he was in Grade 5.

Gary died on the 12/12/2021.

Noelene told June who told Aunty Eileen, your 81year old sister told me when June rang up to tell her, I was visiting her that lunch time.

Gary's Cremation was on the 22nd December 2021 at Pinnaroo at 12.30pm.

I went with Aunty Eileen, she drove her car there.

Erny, you brother or Dot your sister couldn't make it unforseen circumstances.

Daughter June and Renae took mum.

Son Trevor was there with his support worker.

Daughter Glenys ended rocking up with John and sat at the back then took mum back to Bayswater after the inside wake after Gary's funeral service arranged by Gary's immediate families.

Jessica, Elizabeth, Jamie and girlfriend (Kevin's and Judith's adult kids) also attended Gary's farewell service. June's daughter Rochelle and 3kids were also in attendance.

My son Craig Hayden and girlfriend Simone couldn't make it cause of Work Commitments in Karratha, but sent their condolences through me, Colleen, Craig's long term older now living mother still in Perth, WA. Australia.

Gary's funeral service was not like yours Dad and Kevin's burials organised by the family from Christian Funerals, Maylands, to be buried at Guildford Cemetery.

It was inside, a seating area, conductor by the funeral management, with a power point presentation and members of Gary's family from his new, not some of his members from his old family, remembering parts of their lives as a family with Gary over the last 44 going on 45years.

He Like you, like Kevin, Judith, Matthew, Aunty Joyce, Horace, Ron, Teddy, Kevin Healy, Joyce Healy, Ray Healy, and other deceased Hayden Uncles Les, Johnny, Bill, Jimmy, Aunty Gladys, and other members of our deceased relatives, friends and families.

R.I.P. Amen.

We will all see our turn, one way or the other in the unknown future on the other side like you dad and all our ancestors deceased.

HAYDEN (Robert):

Birthdays will always come around, you and mum always remembered all our yearly graded next birthdays, like we will always remember yours, time flys when you least expect it, since we all have spread our wings and raised families to the best of our abilities, you would always ring  all of us, you and mum together in your rented Homes West unit when you were alive the last few years, on the day of your adult children's birthdays, a lot of grandchildren's birthdays that you both met in your different homes together over the long, long yearly home years, when all of us siblings took your grandchildren to communicate with us around the kitchen table, over a cup of tea, coffee and or take aways sometimes, with their long or short term partners now and again with whom some live a long, long way away these days for their livelihood working daily, trade incomes yearly, contracted. First to pay the mortgage monthly, and the house hold utility bills, to keep their shared roofs over their new and old families heads, and others sometimes, just like you did dad many a time years ago. Have missed your phone call from you and mum a couple of times now. 66 tomorrow, your 2nd daughter born 66 years ago in the married Hayden family with my mum Dot Hayden

HAYDEN (Robert):

It's over 1 year now, and everybody still remembers you in their minds, in conversations with others at times, or when they go back in history in regards to the old And new families scattered around Western Australia, reading and doing what I am doing now, looking with glasses on.

HAYDEN (Robert):

 This is a photo of our father's sister and him along time ago dressed up in his Sundays best to be at June's wedding to give her away to her husband that was to be

HAYDEN (Robert):

This was a photo of our old man, Bob hayden whose daughter June Hayden became June Bache on her one and only wedding day who married Jim Bache of Bicton. WA, Australia. Will add photo later.

HAYDEN (Robert):

Add more at a later date with messages. Different stages of 6 raised children. Last one wasn't born in the 1st photo of the big Hayden original children, grandchildren, great grandchildren dynasty from the Healy, Hayden original families.

HAYDEN ROBERT In loving memory of my Dad. You will be dearly missed by many, will miss our chats. June Rochelle Lance Katrina Renee and Partners and Grandkids

HAYDEN ROBERT C (BOB)

Dad, you and Mum raised 6 kids and you left behind a great Hayden dynasty. Now reunited with Kevin. RIP. Love Craig, Karratha, wife Dot, Colleen, friends.

HAYDEN (BOBBY BOB R.C.)

RIP. From all the Hayden Clans. From Craig.